Humor relies on listening as much as wit. To land a joke that others will find funny, you need to understand their frame of reference. You have to attune to their personality, knowledge, and sensibilities, not just your own. The funniest people are often the best listeners. Humor also opens us up and primes us for deeper listening. When we laugh with someone, our guards come down. We share vulnerabilities and quirks that build trust and connection. Humor and sensitive listening are entwined and reciprocal.

Section: 1, Chapter: 9

Author: Kate Murphy